Mikey and Mandy: Tips for 3somes
By Michael Gross and Roberta Morgan
If you’re contemplating a threesome (or “threecome”) and you’ve never done it before, there are some things you want to know to make it work so that all partners are satisfied. They can be a lot of fun, but only if they run smoothly and everyone is included.
• They don’t actually look like threesomes in porn movies, because those are carefully directed.
• It’s best to couple up with two people who’ve done it before, because they know how to get the action moving and keep it going for all three people.
• You might have to do a lot of watching and touching while a couple gets it on. Or supplement their activities with cock or pussy licking, kissing, breast play—you get the idea.
• For girls: If you’re going to have two men at a time, it’s best to know them, to keep out of dangerous situations. Also vital is that these two guys have worked together before, or their rhythm will be off-kilter and they won’t know where to put what when. Set your rules if you don’t want anal sex.
• For girls and guys: Two girls can often get so wrapped up with each other they forget the guy. .
• Make sure you have a big bed, or somewhere everyone can feel comfortable.
• For guys: Don’t pick up two girls when you’re only interested in one. Your duty, as part of a threesome, is to keep both girls satisfied and feeling good about themselves. You best pay attention to the needs of both women.
• Three women usually don’t have that much of a problem. Because females are usually affectionate with each other, they’ll do fine massaging, stimulating and satisfying each other—even though it may end up in a pillow fight if one feels neglected.
The basic rule of threesomes is simple: always keep the action going, except at times when you only want to watch, and try to maintain a smooth flow of action. It should almost be like a hot ballet. If you’re not that coordinated, do simple things and follow the lead of the other two. And if you want something special, ask for it—talking is encouraged in this situation.
Mikey has this to say:
I gotta tell ya, even though this is every guy’s fantasy…it’s a minefield if you don’t pay attention to Mandy’s notes..TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY. I have one very important rule to add (learned after years of experience with some great adventuresome girlfriends)…Decide early who will benefit as the recipient of a threesome. What do I mean? If you think three people can just roll around groping and trying to make everyone happy, you are wrong. It just gets confusing and often hurtful. Jealousies develop, leading to bitterness. There is a simple solution though…
Mikey’s rule. All you have to do is agree on one of ya being the recipient of the other’s attentions. If you are a guy, it might be that both girls direct all the attention to you. (a personal fave for obvious reasons) Or you can be good guy and decide you and the “invited” girl will direct all the loving to your girlfiend or wife. (This works great…you come away a hero and believe me, you will still have plenty of fun). Even better, get another guy to join you in satisfying your babe (You will bank points with her for a long time with this one) But be sure you’re not going to be weirded out by a lot of physical contact with another man in the bed. Get the idea?…
No confusion…two folks agreeing to make the third person happy. Trust me, it works.
I’ll tell you this (true) story that led to Mikey’s rule: My girlfriend and I hooked up with another cutie and I thought I was going to have the night of my life…two babes taking care of me at once!!! Yowza!!! At some point we were rolling around and I fell off the high four poster bed…laughing at first…then after a few minutes they never noticed I was missing…I waited for “Where’s Mikey?”…never happened. They just went on without me. I got pissed. “Hey this was supposed to be MY night!” Well…who said so?
For some more good advice, buy Nina Hartley’s book: Guide to Threesomes
